We all come from somewhere. A small town, a village, a big city. So often we hear people talking about their hometowns. The good, the bad, and the special stories.
When I was younger, I never realized that people sometimes never live in the same place where they spend their whole childhood. So whenever my brother (who is around 8 years older than me) and I speak on phone, we often talk about our childhood and glory days at Amritsar.
Amritsar was a place where it seemed that everyone knows everyone. Even though no one from family, but friends, lives there now but I miss my old dusty hometown. I miss the bright light that revelled in every corner of the city, the savoury smells of the punjabi food, my cricket pals from school, the loud shouting street hawkers, the confusing traffic at railway crossings, the sight of dhoodwallahs (milk-sellers) on their old rusty bicycles, the fresh morning air and many many beautiful memories.
One of such memories my brother reminded me of a couple of weeks back was of the time when I was, I guess, in my early teens. Now that time stores some of the most treasured time of my childhood that I spent with my brother; time that would never come back again.
My brother reminded me of how our mother, despite her mighty power of love on both us, had labeled us in a way The Inglorious Snack-Hunters. When it came to snacks in the house (where ever they may be concealed, she feared us the most. We made sure that any snack, whatever it might be, be it a pack of Cookies to Haldiram Bhujia to Namkeen Dal to Cheeselings to any thinkable form of snack be searched, found, and assimilated same day and all proofs of such hunts be terminated. The proof termination was to keep our mother puzzling. If she would find out, then we always played the Blame Card! It was aces for us.
The only times that she used to be pissed off at her snack-hungry lads was when we put her in embarrassing tight spots. Actually, ours was a house where the flow of guests was always on the high. Our guests usually made surprise visits in the evenings. It was then when she used to find all the snacks cleverly missing from the vault. This situation in addition to the pressure of playing a hostess, sometimes, brought swift but predictable anger. But all her motherly anger magically disappeared when one of us gave her an earnest, dreamy look.
Interestingly, in all the odd situations that I mentioned, the only quick resolve used to be her placing money on my palm for a rapidfire snack purchase from the closest store. I used to run like a hare to fulfill what, to a boy in early teens, was the most interesting act of the errand--the money-spending act.
But did all this stop us from our future hunts—No. As they say, boys are boys.
With all these thoughts, I feel my childhood in my ‘hometown’ is clothed with some really joyful memories.
I hope I visit my hometown and ‘visit’ my childhood, some good day.
Dis write up reminds me of Ruskin Bond...
ReplyDeleteNeha...
I could relate with it , but those Snacks were replaced by Gajar Halwa , my mom cooks Awesome Halwa and we brothers used to find it from where ever it is . Lovely blog .. what next ??
ReplyDeletenice one..takes me back to my childhood when things seemed simple, uncomplicated..i want to always carry some part of the childhood with me. :)
ReplyDeletereminds me of my own heists in the forbidden premises :D
ReplyDeleteMurh murh yaad satave pind diyaan galiaan Dee !!
ReplyDeleteSame happens to me as well my brother.
wow v well written...Nalin u cld be a writer..its v expressive and it reminds me of my childhood days when my mom would lock d refrigerator and my father knew the secret places so that helped us 2 get the keys smtimes.....and then agn blame games.....it ws fun !!!oh yes thse embarrassments n frnt of d relatives gave us good scolding smetimes:) :)
ReplyDeleteits not easy to give words to what u experience through out ur childhood , d journey you travel with ur loved ones ..reminds me of my some good old days as well ..well written man!!!
ReplyDeleteNalin u and chetan bhagat are similar n three ways( and its a compliment)
ReplyDelete1.U look like him
2.Ur writing is bit similar.
3.He is punjabi and u r punjabi by heart!
At first it seems like you should write the stuff out instead of cooking it inside for ages.
ReplyDeleteSo true Nalin. We all have sweet memories of our childhood. U spoke about Amritsar, a place I really connect with. My faith in Babaji is immense. It reminds me of peace and serenity inside the Golden Temple. The langar, so simple yet delicious.
ReplyDeleteFor me, its Babaji's home!!
So Beautiful ...It evokes all those good memories :-)
ReplyDeleteReally nice and reminds of the childhood , ur write up have visualization effects...., that maintains interest of the reader, i think u should start writing some books.
ReplyDeleteReminds of Robert Frost's , Road Not Taken
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Surely makes Nostalgic.
I wish Punjab Sarkar "Badal Family" vs "Captain Family" done something for people like us to get jobs in Hometown.
Chandarbabu Naidu did lots for hyderabad..
So is Modi doing in Gujrat.
More they are interested is to see, if any member of their family has been left out ...
All family shud be in loksabha.. together..
They have really given meaning to the line that "Mera Office hi Mera ghar hai."
Chacha ji/Daadha ji/Maamaji/Inlaws/Bahu Rani/Dammad Ji/kids.. all in same office.
-- Vishal Soni
good blog... it reminds me of a hungry stomach after an evening of good cricket :)
ReplyDeleteDeepankar
very well written .. keep up the gud wrk...atleast we take few moments out of our lives and go to our past ... missing childhood..!!
ReplyDeletenice post nalin ...but i suspect nalin is getting home-sick!!!..... a humble request to the author Nalin to also write about his adventures in South Korea.
ReplyDeleteYe Duniya....... Ye Duniya badi bad hai!!
ReplyDeleteAnd childhood is supposed to be the time when everybody seemed to move around with real smiles on their faces!! Obviously, one is bound to like and remember the real smile and true fun of childhood!!
But the real fun lies in the question whether we are doing what we actually wanted to do as a child....or we are dogged by the realities of life and our childhood dreams are packed in a cold box!!
Very well written, reminds me of my mischievous childhood!! Well dont have any such experience like yours... But have countless memories of several conspiracy I planned to sneak out of house while mom was sleeping in afternoon... :-)
ReplyDeleteHope to read and know more!!
Shilpa
This write up of yours, as if holds our hand and takes us down the memory lane to a town called childhood , and the experiences like characters come to life.
ReplyDeleteI am glad that you all liked it.
ReplyDeletetrue nalin.....i too miss the beautiful days of our childhood in the university campus...esp.c-9 n c-10....i saw u growing up right from ur birth till u were a young boy...love u brother.
ReplyDeleteThank you all.
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